Posts Tagged ‘relationships’

Many notable couples are said to have open relationships. Most commonly these days are Will and Jada Smith. I mean lets be real here they aren’t the most traditional type of people. But, they do appear to be happy. In a society that heavily promotes sex, we then expect couples to remain monogamous. The term all men cheat is not a phrase that is uncommon. It’s said that about 17% of divorces are because of infidelity. Now that number seems fairly low considering every time I turn to a talk show cheating is the prevalent topic. Every relationship I have been in there was cheating, on either my part or theirs, yet and still I go into every hopeful. So I guess my question is wouldn’t an open relationship seem so much easier?

I can only speak for myself when I say I much rather go into a relationship knowing you could cheat when you want, than you not supposed to cheat and do it anyway. I feel like if a couple agreed they had the ability to do date as they please, they probably would get along much better. It definitely would alleviate the going through each other’s phones or email. Can’t say whether I am for or against this idea, I do know with the right people anything is possible.

Watch this clip as comedian Margaret Cho discuss her open relationship and other women..

So apparently Twitter can be used for good. When NBA player Andre Drummond announced his #WCW (Woman crush Wednesday)… Was actress Jenette McCurdy star of Nickelodeon’s iCarly. They must’ve hopped in each other’s dm faster than Warren Sapp hopped in young “models” in 09.

I dunno is this some kind os publicity stunt or real love? Either way I hope they have fun. That is indeed what love is about, fun. All those titles and demands usually end up causing the situation to deteriorate. Well good, there is hope for you young clowns on Wednesday keep the #WCW coming maybe someone will be just as desperate, I meant free as you.

Side-note: they are funny looking together… He got her looking like a midget and thangs let me hush.

Well well well… According to TMZ … This Marriage had many rounds of turbulence since its conception. With it being said in 2011 she called him the N word and so forth. So they got divorced. SOOOOOOOOOOOOO why is he still with her if she’s so crazy?! Men love a crazy chick.

Apparently the “former couple” took a trip to Costa Rica, where his ex-wife Michelle Ghent, said he threatened to kill her. (I’m sorry all I can think of is whoop dat trick from Hustle and Flow) None the less, he asserts that she is looney tunes and suffers from paranoia. He states she was hospitalized for suicide just a couple months ago.

Well I hope the “former couple” can either get some extreme intervention from a therapist or they need to just let it go. Toxic relationships aren’t good for your soul and can cause health issues in the long run. Find peace in your life.

Everything is all great until Spring arrives. Suddenly the not so long convos turn into, calls sent straight to voicemail. Then you jump on a scale and realize you are 30 pounds heavier and now too fat to be chasing ballers during All Star.( Oh maybe that was just me).

Either way the beauty of the new boo phases out. I have no idea how to keep the flame going. That’s not what this blog is about. However, I’m pretty sure if you just take the time not to get stuck in repitition, the relationship might have a chance.

The fun part about new love for me is the falling asleep on the phone together. The moment when you are telling your friends about how awesome he is. (This is usually before, he tries to holla at that same friend). But none the less, new romances can be fun. Just don’t invest so much into it. Pick up a hobby or another boo to allow yourself the time to get to know the other person.

That way when Spring arrives, and your boo starts acting up. You either can go play with your other boo, or sell all the pottery you made. I go with option number 2, financial gain is always a win for me.

Here’s a cute video I found that hit my feelings on the subject matter to a T. Enjoy..

Found this gem on Sandra Rose . It made me really stop what I was doing and ask the question. Do people value relatiosnhips anymore. I remember a time when women, used to go off on dudes for trying to holla at them while in a relationship. I think those days are long gone. With so many of us trying to keep up with the Jones’ a many of us will over look the significant other for a little cash flow. Hush money if you will.

If you have no clue who these two people pictured are, I encourage you to watch Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. It’s just like Young and the Restless, just with random black people. On this show, the girl pictured Joseline, is a side-piece for the man pictured, Stevie J. He has a wife or baby mother named Mimi. The three are entangled in a love triangle, that leaves me speechless every week.

Why wont the women leave? Why if they wont leave, can’t they get along? These questions are deep rooted in more serious questions like, Where is your dad? Or, how stupid are you? But, I personally think we all have been involved in a love triangle. I guess, the question is, how long did you stay there before you realized you were ok being left alone?

I really try to respect people relationships, to keep things simple always put your cards on the table. If you keep it honest, there is still room for feelings to be hurt. Best policy is, if you are relationship and you want to be single. Be single.

*Please note that all of these things mentioned are not to be considered hard facts, these are things that were told to me from a reliable source*

I guess times are very hard in many people lives, specially of that of raplete Diamond. If you do not know who she is please Google. It is said that the 23 year old rapper, was in Dallas making numerous trips on the dime of her “lesbain lover” Olivia Storm while she was dating fellow raplete Scrappy.

It is said that Olivia Storm, is a rapper from Dallas who was promised, a label deal with Diamond’s record label. Apparently, things went awry with the song “She Bad” when Diamond recycled the verse and used it on another track. Olvia, who paid for the track,studio, verse from Diamond was told from Diamond’s people not to promote or use the song anymore. However, Olivia Storm owns the rights since she paid.

Now, I don’t know if Diamond is open about her bisexuality but now she can be. But, who cares about sexual orientation when you are just a fraud ass person. Even if she was not having a sexual relatiosnhip with this women, how are you going to just not let her have the song? Is she supposed to just be out of money, a song and a relationship?

You hoes have no manners…and obviously not alotta money. Below is a picture of all three at a party in Dallas. Olivia is in the center. Also, included is the song “She Bad“… The song sounds pretty good, I’m so sorry this happened to Olivia… This is a dirty industry.

I’m not sure how high cooking for your mate ranks for everyone else, but in the household I grew up in it ranks very high. I can remember a brief discussion I had on Twitter where mostly men complained about their significant other’s lack of culinary skills. I can remember my grandmother saying, “I’m teaching you nhow to cook so you can make a better wife.” I am pretty sure my grandmother who was a young woman in the 40′s, thought she was doing me a great favor.I’m still not married LOL But, honestly in this day and age most people don’t cook. It’s just much more simple to go out to eat.

I do however feel that a girlfriend, wife or boo thang, could have an advantage being able to smother some fried chicken. I like to cook, I have no problems downloading apps that feature recipes or browsing online. I will attempt to cook it, it may not be wonderful the first time but I will keep trying if it’s a dish worth learning.

If you have a boo that enjoys eating at home I would say learn to, or just cook if you can. Cooking would also give you both an opportunity to talk and prepare food. That would also eliminate a lot of outside issues, mostly which are financial. I know an old saying, the key to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

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I’m not by ANY MEANS a big banana fan! Especially raw, fresh, ripe ones. I think I get it from my mom, sensitive freakin’ stomachs, UGH! You know how your mouth gets all watery & stuff when you’re about to get sick, well that’s what bananas do to us, just nasty! But ANYWAYS, on to the good stuff, the YUMMY stuff!

When I saw this recipe over atThat’s So Yummy, I dismissed all of the above….Jamaican Banana Fritters, YUM-OH! They remind me of the banana pancakes my mom used to make my cousins and I, with LOTS of butter and LOTS of syrup, they’re GREAT like that. The sweetness of the cooked banana REALLY does it, it’s the icing on the cake (look at me…yup! ALWAYS thinking about food!) Easy recipe, simple & sweet.
3 ripe bananas
1 egg
1 teaspoon of vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon of cinnamon
1/4 teaspoon of nutmeg
1/2 cup of sugar
2 cups of all-purpose flour
1 tablespoon baking powder
1/4-1/2 cup milk

Peel and mash the ripe bananas.
Beat egg, sugar, vanilla, cinnamon, and nutmeg.
Next, blend egg mixture with mashed bananas. Make sure it is all incorporated.
Then sift flour and baking powder into the banana/egg mixture. Mix it all together.
If the batter seems to be too thick add a little milk… I added about 1/4 cup to 1/2 cup of milk.
Add oil to a frying pan and place on medium high heat. Drop spoonfuls of the banana fritter batter into the hot oiled frying pan. Flip when you see the edges starting to get brown and golden.
Lastly, combine cinnamon and sugar together to create your cinnamon sugar. This is used to sprinkle on top of the fritters once they are finished cooking and still hot.
Sprinkle cinnamon & sugar on top.


Well, who thought he WAS NOT going to deny the allegations Harris made on Howard Stern. He tweeted that she lied, but in a typical Chris Brown move he later deleted. Supposedly, he went on to tell followers that he felt “sad” for her. Ummm, am I the only one thinking that this is all one big pulblicity stunt?

Harris, who is 25 is said to be getting her kicks with Jordan McGraw. (Dr.Phil’s son) I thought it was pretty typical for women to break up with men and say their d*ck was small or they nut quick. Hef is 456773 years old, i’m sure this isn’t his first time hearing something like this.

Well CLEARLY he has moved on he is back with two other gals…Anna Sophia Berglund & Shera Bechard. Typical man moves, getting on to the next ones.

When LOVE goes WRONG


If you havent heard already… Joe Budden(raplete) released a song about his relationship with Esther Baxter (mild video vixen). The whole issue is because  he made a rap song talking about how she was pregnant with his baby and was cheating on him with Derrick Ward (mild raplete). Now I don’t know about you but I think its about time someone expose these hoes for what they are. This is not to say, I believe he is 100% guilt free. I’m sure he was knocking down someone too, but he wasn’t pregnant.

Why do industry people seek out to date other industry people? To keep your fame up? I hope not…That’s pretty sad. I always hear famous couples saying “I need someone who understands my schedule and that I have fans”… SHUT THE FCUK UP! People have common sense, and if you are with a secure partner no matter what instance is thrown their way they will trust you. Well, until the other party destroys the trust level.

I also saw alot of people saying Budden was emotional and acting like a bitch for putting their business out. I have to disagree, it was HIS business the man is hurt so it was his choice.  Hes also an artist, most artists use pain as a muse for their work. But, no one says anything to Eminem who constantly rants about his dealings with his ex Kim. Is this because we have a sense of “BLACK MEN MUST BE TOUGH” in our community? We think men are soft for crying or expressing their feelings. However, isn’t that human nature?

Personally, I’m all for calling someone out…Especially, when they have wronged you to a degree where you have to expose them to feel better. I wish him some better look he constantly has issues with these video chicks..Here’s some advice get a regular chick Joe…